Short Tag Line:
***WANTED COUPLES who think for themselves. ***
I/We are looking for
Secure couples who think for themselves. The lifestyle isn't a "GROUP SPORT". If you need permission from people you know ... to hang out, you're not for us.
We are a married couple with no kids. We are in this to have a great time with those of like mind. If you check out our profile, please drop us an e-mail. The fun starts when people make contact!
We spend one weekend a month in Las Vegas. It is now a part time home for us.
Yes, we are the owners of Events4SoCal and host the Inland Empire's most popular off premise event for the past several years. For more info click on the blue links in our profile. We invite all couples and single females to come out and enjoy the Inland Empires Original Total Take Over!!! You must be on our guest list to attend these special events. Sign up on our guest list, be seen by others who you will meet face to face, and let the fun continue from there. You just need to send us your first names to get on the guest list. You can also contact us as Events4SoCal on the Y.
The ideal couple that we are interested in is (deep breath!!)....one where the women is feminine (bi or bi situational is ok), outgoing and flirty with lots of curves and an appetite for sexual adventure. The man should be comfortable with Chris' height, passionate, confident, a good kisser, decent good physical condition, talented with his tongue and must be very much in love and secure in his relationship*** Would wanting some build-up and seduction be asking too much???? Jeeesh! Just a thought.
What DON'T we want??? Lets see....ummmm, boy we have seen IT ALL!!!! A few come to mind... Game players, flakes, single men posing as a couple, and insecure married couples looking for a quick fix!
We enjoy full swap in same or separate room but prefer the latter. The male half must also be able to hold a intelligent conversation and have some sense of humor... sarcasm works for me! We are a couple who has been in the lifestyle for quite a while now. We enjoy the social aspect of it as well as the sexual side. We are not a couple that is only interested in sex. Sex is easy to find. Finding people you really enjoy and can do anything with is what we are about.
We have experienced many types and styles of this lifestyle and we know what works for us. One night stands are NOT our thing but a close group of friends with benefits is more our preference. We love to party and are friendly and polite even if we don't click sexually. Don't be afraid to come say hello.
Yes, we are hosts of a popular event. However we didn't get into this lifestyle to only do parties. Always feel free to say hello to us. You never know what that might lead to. We'll also say that those who participate in the lifestyle always have better events than those who pretend to be in the lifestyle and only do this as an income.
As for looks you can see one of the many photo's posted here on SLS.
Chris is: 5'10", big blue eyes, VERY curvy with ass for days and natural DD breasts, a ravishing red head with a sweet innocent look but with a "bad girl" side that will blow your mind! Bi-situational with the right girl. Not aggressive or pushy ... it's more about the seduction and teasing that makes the act intense. Very skilled orally, loves kissing and is more on the dominate side in bed. A professional business women, intelligent, sassy, girlie girl and sarcastic at times...When she sees something she wants watch out!. Say hello and get to know her. You'll see her charm and warm personality match her good looks. The clue to enjoying C is, Say what you mean and mean what you say. She has a wide variety when it comes to her taste in men(and women). Just be yourself when you say hello.
Jay is Straight and definitely more the extroverted one . He's been described as charismatic and funny. If you can't have a good time with him in a social setting you might need to seek help from a professional. Great orally and with his hands and in so many other ways. WOW....always full of surprises. If you ladies love to flirt he's your man. Flirt at your own risk though!!! He has been known to have his moments of being laid back and can hold a conversation on many levels.
We have a wide variety of things we enjoy. We ride bikes but are not "bikers" we have a boat but are not "river rats" Get the picture??
So if any of those "Group Titles" are MORE important then "swing" then pass us by.
She has a passion for fine food and good wine and enjoying the company of friends for Sushi. He finds wine nasty and sushi disgusting ...although he goes where she tells him!! LOL
Tell us about your fantasies and/or real experiences.
Here's a fantasy ... For people to have a great time and experience what's out there. To forget about trying to be the popular kid in high school and be the adults you should be.
If you want to have a great time and understand what the above statement means, then by all means contact us, we might just be the kind of people you want to party with.
I am sorry this needs to be said, but IT DOES. Take a shower! Really people, there's nothing sexy about smelling like B.O. and wreaking of cigarettes and pot. If you smoke, that's one thing but if you can't go 10 minutes with out lighting up, and you have no clue that you stink ... You're not for us.
If you take this lifestyle so serious that you believe it's more important than family and real life, please find others like yourself.
Going to a party every weekend does not make you a better swinger, it simply makes you addicted to something.
Everyone has the right to decide what's right for them. That's why we took the time to write all of this.
If you need approval or are the "Drink the "Kool-Aide" type, you're not fitting into this fantasy. But we mean that in a good way!
What else would you like to say, do, see, hear about or learn about.
If you've gotten this far e-mail us. We respond to all e-mails even if it's just to say thanks, but no thanks.
For more info and fun join our SLS group Events4SoCal. There's a link above. Also feel free to contact us on the Y as events4socal.